Read messages
without the
emotional spike.

ExConnect creates a calm layer between you and difficult communication. We receive your co-parenting emails, human assistants refine them for neutrality, and you only see what matters via WhatsApp. No more high-conflict landing.

Person reading a message calmly

No direct contact with your co-parent.
Simply communicate with your ExConnect assistant via WhatsApp.

Your assistant softens incoming communication, refines outgoing communication, and manages the correspondence on your behalf.

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ORIGINAL
"You're late AGAIN. Don't even bother coming to pick up the kids if you can't respect my time. This is typical of you."
SOFTENED
"I noticed you're running late. Please let me know your ETA so I can manage the children's expectations and schedule."
ORIGINAL
"You never consider how this affects me, and every conversation makes it worse."
SOFTENED
"I'd like to find a better time to talk. Our recent conversations haven't been very productive."
Your reply...
"The biggest benefit wasn’t better communication. It was not having to communicate directly. I didn’t realise how much emotional energy that contact was costing me until it was gone.”
— Michael T., Co-parent

A calm layer between you and the message.

Every message is reviewed by a trained human assistant before it reaches you.

Incoming messages

Before you see it, your assistant reads the raw email and rewrites it using neutral, factual language. You receive the softened version via WhatsApp.

Outgoing messages

Simply send your message to your ExConnect assistant via WhatsApp. Your assistant acknowledges it with a 👍 to let you know it's being processed. If your message is ready to send, it's forwarded to your co-parent by email. If it could be improved, you'll receive a suggested alternative via WhatsApp. Once you approve it with a 👍, your assistant sends it to your co-parent.

Why people use ExConnect

People use ExConnect because they want:

Incoming Message Flow

Your co-parent emails you Via an email account you create specifically for co-parenting
Assistant Analysis Conflict points are identified and removed
Neutral Notification You receive a neutral message via WhatsApp. Clear & factual, not emotional.

Outgoing Message Flow

You compose / reply via WhatsApp Type what's on your mind
Assistant Analysis Your assistant forwards your message on, or sends a softer alternative to you via WhatsApp.
Final Approval You approve with a thumbs up, and the email is sent to the co-parent
Family playing together calmly

Designed for family composure.

We don't use AI to guess your intent. We use trained humans to ensure nuance and safety.

01

Email arrives

You choose whether to view the original email. Some people find these upsetting and opt not to.

02

Your assistant creates a buffer

Your dedicated ExConnect assistant receives your co-parenting emails, softens the communication where needed, and communicates with you via WhatsApp, so you don’t have to deal with the direct contact.

03

Simply reply to your ExConnect assistant via WhatsApp

Your assistant acknowledges your message and manages the rest. If your message is ready to send, they’ll forward it to your co-parent by email. If they believe it could be improved, they’ll send you a suggested alternative. Once you approve it with a simple “like”, they’ll send it on your behalf.

Human support. Not automation.

Trust is built on human understanding, not algorithms. Our assistants are trained in de-escalation techniques.

100%
Human review
Every single message is processed by a real person. No "smart bots" or generic AI responses.
0%
Auto-sending
We never send anything without your explicit approval. You maintain total control of your voice.
256-bit
Private & Secure
Your conversations are private and confidential. Data is encrypted and stored according to strict security protocols.

One plan.
Everything included.

Simple, transparent pricing for total peace of mind.

ExConnect Membership
$ 99
AUD /mo
  • Human-assisted message filtering
  • Incoming message softening
  • Outgoing message refinement
  • WhatsApp support
  • Dedicated communication assistant
  • Up to 3 message exchanges per day
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No commitment. Cancel anytime.

Take control before the message is sent.

Regain your peace of mind and improve the well-being of your children through clear, calm communication.

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